Inspiration

August 11, 2009
By Meghan Chavalier
Inspiration: "To fill with
an animating, quickening, or exalting influence"
What inspires you in your daily life? Have
you met someone in your life that inspired you to become a
better person? Today I want to discuss being gay and inspiring
others.
I have been asked many times why I started
Stopping The Hate and it came from inspiration out of anger.
Last year a young transgender woman Angie Zapata was murdered
in Colorado. I was so angry and upset over her death that
I decided to start the organization. I felt as if nothing
was being done about our young men and women in the LGBT Community
being taunted, beaten and murdered on a daily basis. So, although
it was a horrific crime that took me to "wake up"
I was inspired to get off my ass, quit thinking about myself,
and try to do something for the LGBT Community.
I will admit, at times, I get very frustrated
because I feel much of the work that's done is ignored, but
I continue to forge ahead to do what I think is right. I am
inspired by the LGBT Community and what it means to me that
we are safe and recognized as equal citizens in the United
States of America and around the world.
I have heard many things over the last year,
like I only have this website to inflate my ego. I want to
tell those people that I am not driven by ego. I am driven
to make wrongs, right and I will continue to work for the
LGBT Community until I breathe my last breath. I don't need
people to pat me on the back, that's not why I do what I do.
I do what I do because I genuinely love my community.
With that said, I think it's very important
for people in our community to find something in their life
that will inspire them to help others. If its helping at your
local AIDS Hospice, or helping the homeless or starting your
own organization and helping the LGBT Community. I think too
many times we go through life wondering what we can do, but
often don't take the steps to get there.
One person can change the world. It's true.
One voice, can be heard globally that can change minds that
were closed to now be open.
Never think that because you are different
that you don't make a difference in the world, because you
do. Every single person is placed on Earth to make a difference.
Some people stray and do the wrong things, but so many people
do the right things and that's what your inspiration in life
should be, to do the good things.
When you learn to become selfless your whole
life will change.
I don't want to preach because that is not
what I do in life. I just want others in the LGBT Community
to know that you can make a difference. Being different is
a gift. Imagine if you were like everyone else. Imagine if
we all thought the same, dressed the same and acted the same
how boring life would be.
Embrace your differences, and then take those
differences to inspire those around you.
Whitney Houston has a new song on her new
cd called "I Didn't Know My Own Strength." The words
say it all for me.
Lost touch with my soul
I had no where to turn
I had no where to go
Lost sight of my dream,
Thought it would be the end of me
I thought I’d never make it through
I had no hope to hold on to,
I thought I would break
I didn’t know my own strength
And I crashed down, and I tumbled
But I did not crumble
I got through all the pain
I didn’t know my own strength
Survived my darkest hour
My faith kept me alive
I picked myself back up
Hold my head up high
I was not built to break
I didn’t know my own strength
Found hope in my heart,
I found the light to life
My way out the dark
Found all that I need
Here inside of me
I thought I’d never find my way
I thought I’d never lift that weight
I thought I would break
I didn’t know my own strength
And I crashed down, and I tumbled
But I did not crumble
I got through all the pain
I didn’t know my own strength
Survived my darkest hour
My faith kept me alive
I picked myself back up
Hold my head up high
I was not built to break
I didn’t know my own strength
There were so many times I
Wondered how I’d get through the night I
Thought took all I could take
I didn’t know my own strength
And I crashed down, and I tumbled
But I did not crumble
I got through all the pain
I didn’t know my own strength
Survived my darkest hour
My faith kept me alive
I picked myself back up
Hold my head up high
I was not built to break
I didn’t know my own strength